Hi all,
I have been in a fantastic relationship for 3 years...wonderful in every way. Just after Christmas my boyfriend moved out saying he loves me to bits but just can't let anyone in, he just feels the need to be alone. He has been diagnosed with depression and is now on medication and recieving counselling.

He is carrying around so much guilt for treating me so badly as he is always letting me down with no warning, that its got to the stage that he is having problems even speaking to me on the phone.

I feel I'm in a real dilemma....I don't want to loose him, but its causing him so much hurt I wonder if it would be best for him for me to finish it so he can concentrate on getting better and not have the worry of what this is doing to me (I am now on medication)

Any advice on how to help him would be great...just want things back to how they were

Thanks everyone

Jane