It's so long and detailed but why do I get so irate and disturbed when I see people treated unkindly/unfairly and I take steps to bring light to it and the victim backs down claiming it was no big deal etc!!!! I am indignent for them and then they say oh it wasn't that bad after they cry on my shoulder. I end up looking like an idiot and most recently looking unstable to an agency that needs to believe that I am stable enough.

Also why is it okay for the AGENCY to say and do anything they want but to crawl down our thrats if we dare speak up about mis-conduct, rude behavior etc.?