Sorry you're feeling blue still.. I've not split up from someone for a while now, but whenever I did, I used to allow myself a week or two at most to lick my wounds, feel utterly miserable and then make myself get out and get busy. See friends or whatever, just nice things. Distraction always helped me, I'd start to have fun which always is good, and before I knew it, the sadness had faded a lot.

All I can suggest is to get yourself back out and busy. Do anything to make yourself smile, even if just a little bit. See friends, go shopping and spoil yourself to something really nice. Have a long soak in the tub with a good book. Anything really that you can think of that always used to make you smile before you met him. Please remember too that you didn't feel so alone before you met him, and in time you won't feel alone anymore - it's a period of adjustment. Above all this, be kind to yourself.

Hugs