Thank you for your kind reply.

To clarify, I did manage to get my wife to stop texting him the couple months ago when this was going on, after I saw all those texts.

I've thought about this a lot the past few days, and I've come to a conclusion.

My wife acted the way she did for a reason. I am going to work on being a better man for her (and for myself), as I believe that is the underlying factor on why she did what she did. I consider myself to be a good and a loving husband, but I've realized she's missed having a man in her life, which frankly I need to be more of for her.

Firstly, I'm going to work on myself, for my own happiness. Whatever happens with my marriage, happens. If she is not happy with the type of self-improvement I will be doing, then so be it (but I have a feeling that won't be the case).

Thank you everyone who responded for all your support.