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Originally Posted by mike1127
Okay hamster, but you haven't said anything that makes it okay to tell a rape victim that you want to masturbate to her photo. I predict that for 98% of rape victims it's going to trigger her, and anyway any guy who does that, just from the possibility it would trigger her, is either massively insensitive or cruel or both. We'd have to take a survey.
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The guy said it once, was told not to say it again, and did not follow instructions. So, that is bad. But it is not specific to sexuality - it is a general issue of insensitivity. I do not see anything wrong in saying what he said to OP
once, because OP should be able to distinguish criminal from non-criminal intent and abuse of physical force from private masturbation in her absence, but since she was triggered, for whatever reason, and
communicated her dislike of the comment, the guy should not have repeated it.
None of it is sexuality-specific - it is just general lack of good manners, and people who lack good manners should generally be avoided if at all possible.