Rejection - it hurts! It hurts like mad.

But I think to think that you are stupid, ugly, fat or plain old not good enough because a person has rejected is wrong. Yes, someone you may like may not like you back, or someone broke up with you because it wasn't working for them and it hurts our feelings and our pride. But do we let it beat us, or do we not let one person's opinion be the thing that defines us? Hopefully the latter.

We all go though it. Not liking someone when they liked us, or broken up with someone who's not right for us. Did we want them to feel terrible, to lose all confidence, to hate themselves for our decision? I know that myself the answer would be a huge heartfelt no, and a wish that they do find someone else, someone who will fit them like a glove, and I want them to be happy. I wonder if that's what the person who rejected you would want - for you to be happy and not feel this bad.

There will be someone out there who will not reject you, someone who will like you for you being you.

Hugs.