Hammy the lawyer at work. Down girl down....it sounds like you are in attack mode IMO against CG's moral values.

As for CG's moral values that he holds....he may be the minority out there in the world....but there are other's of us that feel that same way also....it's not just CG against the world who has those values & holds to them very strongly.......so I don't think it's right to put him down for those moral values that he has....he isn't alone it's just that you don't live your life around those people who hold those values dear & instead, deny that they exist out there in the world.

It is interesting how the wife doesn't claim to remember what happened, & then remembers it to be FFM & remembers the details.....seems to be some sort of lie of omission that was going on in the first place....how convenient not to remember some negative things that would cause a problem in the relationship one is trying to make work & then to just manage to text it openly while conversing with a GF......definitely confusing....but more on the wife's behavior personally IMO.