Sky, you're probably right. My son and I had one of our screaming matches on Tuesday. That's par for the course for us but we always wind up working things out. We got things out in the open between us and resolved them. However, the things his wife has been pulling are still there. I don't have any hope of her even making any effort to understand. She'd prefer to hold things over my head. That's probably what I perceive as a threat and as a power trip... which is a <font color=red>BIG TRIGGER</font color=red> to me. My inner child wants my son to validate me and tell his wife where to get off... which is not going to happen and I understand, I think!

Thanks for bringing that up. Things became a bit more clear for me as I responded to you.

Skip the shower and go??? eeewwwwwww The new perm made me look like Don King!! (Is that his name??) The smell wasn't too pleasant either! LOL





<font color=blue>"Our doubts are traitors and make us lose the good we oft might win by fearing to attempt" --Shakespeare</font color=blue>