Just because you don't see it doesn't mean it doesn't exist or that it isn't right for those who do believe it just as strongly as you don't.....& it is an important issue because along with the lie of omission of information which doesn't make sense between the 2 posts either.....one, she doesn't have any memory of what happened & the next, she's texting all about it in a 3 way text message.......it's also the wife that I am questioning in all of this also....not just CG IMO.