Change what? Your sexuality? Girlfriend??
Can a black person be white? (Michael Jackson excluded)
Can a jew be an arab?
Can an irish girl be native american?
Can a tall woman become short?
You are who you are. I get that it's hard, but Lesbians can have good solid long term relationships...IF they are healthy. You NEED to get healthy. You don't need someone to swoop in and love you, you need to LOVE YOURSELF. It PISSES me the EF off that those stupid boys and your stupid effing parents did not SHOW you how incredible you are.