Welcome and sorry to hear this, Jane.

<font color=blue> I think both of you realize that things might never get back to the way they were. And this doesn't have to be a bad thing!

<font color=purple> If you can "let go" of how it is now, and has been, then the two of you can plan to make it different in the future. A different relationship might help both of you become better!

<font color=green> We all know that pressure/stress can become overwhelming, especially when it comes from others, and we hardly handle our own thinking.

<font color=black> Contact him in a different, non threatening, non reply required way (a card? i.e.) Tell him things are okay between you and he, and add some of your own touches to what you think. Just being there, and not expecting anything (if you can) might help in itself. <font color=purple>

Hope this helps.

<font color=blue> meditation is a true way to connect to the Source </font color=blue>