technical issue but fail to see that you were a victim of a violent crime which is a serious issue and NOT a technicality.

For another, you seem to not understand that the most basic question that you need to ask yourself before you engage in any act is whether anybody would be hurt by it.

When you engage in phone sex with complete strangers (again, I personally do not see the point in doing that, but if you like it while you do it, there is a valid reason for you), nobody gets hurt, so it is OK to do that. "whether somebody gets hurt" is not a technical question - it is the most important question there exists.

Finally, to the extent that I am quite prepared to talk about heaven on a symbolic level, a ticket to heaven is not purchased via abstinence from phone sex with strangers.

A ticket to heaven is something you need to EARN WITH GOOD DEEDS, OK?

So instead of tormenting yourself with whether you do or do not watch lesbian whatever you watch, DO SOMETHING GOOD!

- Sign up to volunteer at your local hospice, and spend six months changing the diapers and holding hands of old people who are dying. After only six months of doing that, I GUARANTEE, your relationship with god will improve by itself, because you will have earned it.

- find out how frequently one can donate blood and donate blood as frequently as it is allowed, unless you have really really low blood pressure.

- if you like animals, volunteer for your local rescue agency

And so on and so forth - I hope you get the point.