People don't get how my T terminating with me still affects me today (since it was awhile ago). They have no freaking clue because they have never been to therapy before or completely left out of nowhere at a terrible time by the one person they trusted and don't seem to get the idea of/need for CLOSURE.
I have a friend who literally refuses to speak to me about my ex-T...the only reason he is still my friend is that my current T is so concerned that I have cut myself off from the world since being depressed, he thought I should keep the friendship open since he is a supportive friend otherwise.
And hey there is something I have tried to explain (never doing it again) and NO ONE gets, depression. So yes, I get it...hugs to you.