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Originally Posted by pktrain
Thanks for your reply. I was in love with my wife. But as the marriage went on and kids happen, we find quarreling with each other. I do care about her but I don't get that strong emotional pull towards her. My wife does not want to go to therapy together.. She just wants me to go alone and find out why i cheated on her ..
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I am sorry but you are not torn by two women - a man is torn by two women when there are two women and each wants him all to herself and he cannot choose in which direction to go... you do not have even
one woman who wants you all to herself, I am sorry to say...
I do not know why your wife wants you to go to therapy to find out why you did what you did since you know the answer to this question already - you do not feel an emotional pull towards her. So you do not need to waste money on therapy if all she expects from therapy is answering a question that has already been answered. So to go to therapy purely for clarification purposes would be a waste of time and money.
Does she know that you do not feel an emotional pull towards her any longer, and, it has been some time since you stopped feeling that pull?