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Originally Posted by hankster
If she really wants to do these things with you, you both should be able to talk about them openly. If she isn't serious about it, then you should know that too. You would be risking narcissistic injury if she does not, but otherwise you are risking even more, imo. I have often thought my t was hinting at things also, and it was scary to ask, but ultimately worth it.
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I have been thinking about this a lot since you posted it Hankster and sorry for. The bump up. I am not sure what narcissistic injury is fully. I am working up the courage to ask t if she would like to be friends. I know she will have to stop being my t then but I would rather she be my friend or colleague when I graduate and maybe she could be my supervisor even.
When you asked your t was he serious, did you get the answer you hoped for?