we talked a bit later on and both apologized for being pissy. She said she did not realize she was talking so loud, and she didn't think I could hear her with my headphones on (but she penetrated even that)... she is definitely more extroverted than I am. She wants to be around people all the time, and I don't. I hate that we fight about it.
Depression is kicking both our butts, and we just end up lashing out at each other... Good thing we started couple's therapy this past week... we really need it to help communicate better.