Hi all...I need to offload..
I jointly share a beautiful little house. Its a fully furnished cosy home provided by a non formal landlord (not an agency related type) he cuts the grass replaces broken things etc. I love it here. Though I pay above average. Huge garden, large ensuite bedroom, lovely place. The other girl was already here when I moved in.
The adjoining house is owned by same landlord and he rents that to 2 mismatched (dont get on) males. He stays a few nights per week here. I noticed in the beginning shes very flirty and silly girly around these men and landlord. They range from 34-60 and she is 24 but looks like a 14 yo. She has them all on a string and she uses them. In fact she uses people in general. She is one of those that doesnt ask for anything but hints and plays dumb, talks you to death and is over friendly to win you over, seems interested in you but isnt, half listens to you. Shes a manipulator supreme.
Shes so incredibly childish and needs so much attention and compliments. She would exhaust me talking about her physical self and fishing for compliments. The last time was her birthday a mth ago and despite being surrounded by people thinking shes adorable (notably men) she later in the house was posing in the mirror and says all whiney...do u think i look nice. I told her to go away. She has a boyfriend but this isnt enough she spends way too much time around the guys next door and they are crazy about her.
Ok so shes not my type of person but she is affecting me in terms of this joint home. Ever since I walked in I have cleaned. Any cleaning that needed doing I did it. She never seemed to be around, never did it while I was out, or was studying plus at first I fell for this and I became the cleaner here I even cleaned her bathroom once because (clever tactics) oh Im so stressed today ive got to go to uni and then bf is coming over and i have to home blahblah and i have to clean my bathroom...so I did it to help the poor delicate little girl out (NO she isnt) it was disgusting. She has no bin and throws things on the floor.
Somehow like a bucket of water I woke up and realise that she was using me (Id seen her use the guys next door for other things) I cut off from her and asked for just 1 chore to be put on a rota..the downstairs floors and stair carpet..small house takes 15 min. She went nuts, ran off shouting at me, straight into the guys house and was wailing her heart out..I heard her through walls. It took all my strength not to go in and drag her by her hair.
She seems to think Im her servant. She cant change a bin, wipe the micro or the hob, wring out the cloths, clean her crumbs from the work top, push her chair in at the dining table, take her rubbish out of a room, she damn idle. She leave sher dishes lying around. She also Ive found pays less than me by arround 50%!!
The landlord is, erm, a bit TOO fond of her. Ive watched him watching her skip about in her little shorts.Hes utterly captivated by her dumb little girl chatter. Pathetic. He wont handle this situ and as Im in a depressive period I feel sooo very angry I could smack her. I really could Id like to beat the **** out of her. I feel insulted, disrespected and used. I have spoken 3 times to the landlord and hes obviously listening to her. God knows what shes telling him, the poor delicate little flower
I cant just leave I have no where to go. I work hard and love and need my rest time and am a real homebody. I respect this house so much and am grateful. I feel totally out of control and I cant take feeling anymore useless or inferior to people than I already do. Im a kind a sensitive person (and prone to anxiety and depression)
Anyone know what I should do or been around same type?
TIA