I know what you mean but i think us girls do need guys to feel whole.
It's like the way they say humans actually NEED sex like food, water, air.
I think it's natural to seek a companion, a partner and there is a part of us that needs that, not to feel good about ourselves, solely but to love and to love back in a way that is different from family and friends.
But yeah you don't want to need a boyfriend to feel worthy etc, good about yourself. I feel pretty complete and happy, but i want to take things further in life and make some strong, close friendships so that i can experience everything life has to offer.
xx