I do not find the woman I see warm or particularly nice. On the other hand, warm and nice are probably not what I look for. I have never had a gushy female therapist. I haven't even run into them more than a couple of times.

In a man, warm caring and concerned would not make me want to tell them anything. Warm caring and concerned kind of creeps me out.

I really like seeing what different things we like. I wonder if the woman I see considers herself warm, caring and concerned? She once referred to herself as an earth mother type and I almost fell off her sofa - I have never met a person less earth mothery than she is - I am more earth mother than I consider her to be - and I am not earth mothery at all.