Hard to say what he needs but if I were in your shoes I would be wanting to take care of myself; you don't need to live in a smelly/dirty/harmful environment; suggest to your boyfriend that you move out and he go with you or get rid of his brother one way or the other, preferably through mental health care of some sort. It doesn't sound like he just needs evaluation, he needs ongoing help.
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