1- hahahah does he even know what narcissism is??? lolol whine is definitely NOT narcissism. sooo funny.

2-yeah if the person has already a dependent personality OF COURSE they willl depend on psych to even breathe.

3- inaction thing... my therapist always pushed me to get a freaking job, never told me oh we have to work on that lolol

overall he has no idea what hes talking about and should keep it to himself. i actually had the opportunity to have short-term therapy recently. was the 1st time a therapist said it to me. in some cases is good caz is actually very practical (i am like that) but for people that have personality disorders is quite hard to make the difference. i even read an article about a try out with a borderline (i have some characteristics) and there was an improvement but it was only addressed one issue therefore it would be needed more therapy to address other issues.

the only thing i can say is most psychs like theoretical stuff when they should be practical. before i find the association im in i had this psych that would give allll the examples of people that managed to get better and whatnot (some with social phobia which i dont even have lol) and say "u have to challenge urself" over and over again. and im like thinking to myself "wtf, are u saying something fantastic?? how about u tell me HOW TO DO IT??" i left her, didnt have money anyway and sure dont like paying for balbalabla bla.