I've posted a couple times about dating... I am so disappointed because I met someone a few weeks ago who is a total package and it didn't work out... It seemed like we were going to move forward and then he flipped gears on our last date at the end. I don't think details are that important- we just got our signals crossed when it seemed like all was going great. He left on an awkward note. I hate that it ended on that note when everything was going so well. We were talking about how much we liked each other and how we each have qualities we are looking for... I can't recall being so attracted to someone like this. It was just everything about him!
Now I obviously feel rejected since he hasn't reached out to me. I reached out once to feel it out and to me if he's not making an effort then there's my answer...

Now I've got the usual guys trying to score casually with me and I am so far beyond the casual phase.. (Seriously who are these people hooking up via text message!) I try to stay positive thinking I'll find the right one for me but it's so few and far between that I even meet a total package like this last one. Someone I can see myself really being with in life. It was instant with him. Now I feel like I will be comparing anyone new to the last one. Don't judge simply because it was so brief. It's really hard to meet decent men with good intentions and he seemed to have them. I got hopeful for the future.

I'd really like to hear a man's opinion on what switches off in your head