That`s the trouble when you really love someone, you tend to think they are the exception, you know they have a past and part of you wants to know and part of you doesn`t. Better to concentrate on the here and now.I totally trusted someone and thought she would never "betray" me, I actually thought she was "different" but she turned out to be "just like all the rest". I wish I could stop using cliches.:} But generally people don`t/can`t live up to one`s expectations, one just has to accept that no-one is perfect.