I see 2 different therapists. T#1 suggested I find one who does EMDR. He felt he could not fully help me. Abandonment feelings were triggered when he suggest it. I felt like he was trying to get rid of me. I am crazy attached to him. Several weeks later I decided to take him up on his suggestion to split the transference and help me ease the painful attatcment feelings I had for him. So I make an appointment and it turns out that T#2 is incredibly nurturing and EMDR works. They only talked once T#2,was concerned I was being re-traumatized from the exposure therapy T#1 was doing without making sure I had coping mechanisms in place. I now see T#1 every other week and T#2 twice a week alternating with T#1.