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Originally Posted by hamster-bamster
I got it. No, I do not get nervous and I have never dropped a drink - she gives me a cup of tea or a glass of Kombucha every time I see her and I have never dropped a drink or even almost dropped a drink in more than six months.
So, yes, it is quite serious. Agreed.
I do not agree that you would risk losing her if you come out - you are having a garden variety case of transference and she has definitely gotten training on how to deal with it.
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I beg to differ with one point...
all Ts might be trained to deal with it, but some
won't deal with it or just
can't and terminate/refer the client instead. I am not saying that will happen in this case, but there are NO guarentees when this topic is concerned.
My new T even told me that his T friend automatically refers clients if he finds out they have transference going on
(erotic, I assume). He said he was trying to discourage his friend from this pov...I think his T friend needs more therapy of his own. Ugh.