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Originally Posted by PlatinumHeart
You know what, I am very blessed too. And I don't desire sex. I am the same way I think about men and masturbate but I have no desire for actual sex.
I was just in a sexless relationship and he broke up with me because there was no passion and no spark. That is understandable, but at this point in my life I think having a good friend is more important than a relationship so that's where I'm at right now.
I think its just not for some people. Yeah you may be missing out on something, people tell me that ALL the time, how I'm missing out on the "greatest thing". Well you know what, I'm pretty content in my life and I am very lucky with the love from my parents and my sister. Sex isn't the be all end all in my opinion, its just whatever makes you happy 
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I don't masturbate but do miss a man in life. Had few sexual encounters but felt sex is a task to oblige man rather than pleasure.
I agree that friend is more important in life but is it possible to have friend who doesn't think sexually about u? I've had many friends but the closer I go with them the sexual instinct rise in them. I'm looking for plain platonic friendship but none of the guys are interested in that.
I feel I give wrong signals to them and that is why they advance... any suggestions...
I get emotionally attached to anyone who shows little care and concern towards me. Because of which I care for them a lot and may be that makes them think that I would like to be sexually involved.