I have found myself in a similar situation quite a few times. I tend to find that to start with people are really understanding but over time they get frustrated when I can't commit to stuff, or rarely if ever do things which have been planned last minute with them. Don't give up hope though! I have some wonderful friends who do understand. Not that they don't get frustrated at times, but I let them know when I am finding this extra difficult and they go out of their way to make things easier for me. Mostly by accepting that I might not be able to stick to plans we've made. Sometimes, when I cancel plans last minute one of them will offer to come and see me at home instead, which can help. Though lots of the time I don't feel up to seeing even my closest friends at all.

If nothing else, I hope it helps to know you are not alone.

Milli

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