Glad it worked for you, Lillium. If I had "friends" like yours I'd dump them.

It's possible you're not "smart, pretty, beautiful." Your posts reflect and intelligent mind behind your written words. Coming from someone, me, who has a Ph. D. in clinical psychology for Columbia U. in NY that may mean more than a lay person saying it.

As to "pretty, beautiful", that resides in the eye of the beholder. I do know what conventional "pretty, beautiful" is in this country and on TV. If you want to post a picture I'll tell if you fit that steriotype. But I am prejudiced by what little I know of you, so I am likely to see you as attractive, interesting even if a TV producer wouldn't.