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Old Jun 02, 2013, 07:25 AM
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Originally Posted by Perna View Post
Winter's idea of the empty bottles is interesting; I had a group T who, she and her psychiatrist husband, bought an entire set of cheap plates for her to smash :-) I'd be tempted to load them with spaghetti/sauce and let them fly against a wall somewhere. Someone should start a theme park like that, where you can go break plates and pound on boxing workout bags. Do you belong to a gym? I'd be tempted to go around getting free workouts "checking out" gyms about now.

I'm so sorry you are hurting. Hope something feels better/reliefful for you soon.
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Originally Posted by likelife View Post
Thank you so much for the hugs and support, everyone. I'm incredibly touched by the support. And thanks for the suggestions for coping with the anger. I do like the idea of smashing something other than myself, tempting as it might be. At the same time, I'm such a timid person IRL that the thought of smashing something is kind of frightening. All the same, I was definitely thinking it would be nice to have a heavy bag to just whale on.
You may find, if you try it, the smashing quite liberating. Try it alone, in a safe place... (or, maybe a punching bag and some gloves are just what you need in your room? fight it out, good for the body too, exercise, coordination...............)
Thanks for this!
likelife