I get the confusion too...I watch girl/girl porn (please don't judge...it really is quite different with no men there, lol) and don't watch any other, but yet I have only been interested in men IRL. I can't believe I just even typed any of that...I should go run and hide now.
I had no idea sexuality could be this confusing, although I guess it makes sense it is.
violet_skye, I guess I am kinda like you...I would NEVER find a random male's body attractive; I would need to be connected to them emotionally and then I find them very attractive, whereas I can see a naked female in girl/girl porn and be quite attracted to her curves and shapes, etc. alone.
I guess since I have never even kissed a girl (thanks, Katy Perry) I don't know for sure if I could be bisexual or not? I guess trying it has occurred to me but I have never seen any girl I could imagine even kissing IRL. I have never been attracted to any of my friends and I also have more guys that are friends than girls.

ajbpdljhsk, sorry for all of my confusing mess, but I guess the more you hear the more you know you are not alone.

I was also wondering if you had ever kissed a girl before? if you really like a girl, you might know more if you experimented some.