Looks like when anxiety knocks, about any issue, you add to it all other possible reasons for anxiety. Instead of trying to think clearly about that one problem and find some solutions you add other issues that may go wrong.
Now, believe me, everything can go wrong, potentially.
It is our guidance, our faith and our hope that everything will turn out well (have you seen 'shakespeare in love'?) that lead us to positive outcomes.
Yes a T would definitely help. In the while try and face one problem at a time. Saying to yourself that you will solve it. And keeping other problems away from that one. Do not add problem to problem or it may be too much