In a space of 4 months, I carried on seeing my long term T, plus a marriage therapist with hubby (one off session) and later a fertility counsellor at the hospital (one off 2 hour session) I found by the time my usual session with T came I was 'all spoken out'. She was aware and even positive about me seeing these other 2, however I still felt like I was 'cheating' on her. I couldn't do it long term..