I left my parents when I was 22 years old, it was the day I got married, to go to a far away country, my parents where very sad to see me go but I couldn't understand why they were feeling so sad. During the first month I missed them very much and spend a fortune on telephone calls. Even though I was beginning a new life, in a new country I did miss them very much and I still miss my mother very much as we only see each other every two years my father died about 7 years ago.Through the following years I had my three children who will fly the nest one day, I ask myself how I will be able to cope. My world is my children. I have started from now to prepare myself for that day. I have joined a couple of clubs and I try to see my friends at least once a week. I do feel lonely though because already they are very independant and one of them is already 19 years old. I keep asking myself, how am I going to cope with the situation. I can really understand what you are going through and I hope you will find a solution.

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