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Old Jun 02, 2013, 06:57 PM
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Originally Posted by Miswimmy1 View Post
Ok so I get the sense that transferance is when you transfer feelings about someone else onto your therapist? Can you have transferance about yourself? I was just thinking because T1 reminds me so much of myself... Like that's why I like her so much (not to sound narcissistic). She's like a better version of me and that's why I look up to her so much. Is that transferance?
here where I live and work yes this can be a form of transference. it can also be idolization (idolizing your therapist/putting your therapist on a pedestal where you only see the good and what you want to see in them) and like someone already mentioned it can also be you projecting your image into your therapist.
Thanks for this!
Miswimmy1