I was with women for 9 years prior to my ex who was the first guy in 9 years. I was in a relationship with my ex from Jan of 2008 until October 2012. We have a daughter that is almost 33 months old. I am the one that ended it originally. We kinda hung out a little here and a little there and were still intimate for awhile on and off since We split in October. We have decided that it just isnt going to work. In September 2011 I found out he was talking to someone else. We decided to try to work it out and stayed together. I began sleeping with someone else that December. I basically just stayed with him for our daughter, and continued to fool myself for another year. Before I found out I was pregnant, I had though about leaving him. I am having a difficult time beginning to date though. I went on a couple dates with a guy I met on a dating Website. I thought I was capable of "dating". I however cannot grasp the idea of talking to multiple people at a time. I want to get to know 1 person and see where that goes. The guy I went on a date with however is only wanting casual dating, after he told me that he knew he could develop feelings for me and that I would be the perfect girlfriend. I am at a loss. I don't know why I am having a difficult time with the fact that this guy "isn't ready" for a relationship (using his 6yr sobriety from alcohol replaced by a sex addiction as his reason). Help... This is so difficult and I don't like this feeling.