i can completely see how you could read into this that your T might want you to see someone else. when my T asks me why am i in T when i dont try and communicate with her,i am convinced she hates me and so on.

i think that maybe you could look at it in a differnt way, reading this it seems to me she may be pointing out that you do have a choice in this. it also seems like you still have some feelings about how she dissapointed you in the past. are you sure it has been worked through for you.

i think i would check things out in person