Any time I do a search for therapists in my area, XT's wife pops up at the top of the list. I only know it's her because he often called her by her first name and I know she was a t too. It's weird...he didn't speak very well of her. I have this sick thought of hooking up with her just to hear the other side! I would never do that of course, but I wish I could filter her out of my searches.