IDK I think we have to assume what the other person is saying to be able to devise a response, especially here at PC. If I don't believe that I know what a post means, I would never feel confident enough to express a reply. Right?

I'm working very hard on this thread, Rhapsody, to try and find your truth here... but I have to agree with Septembermorn, as I read your responses, that you appear to be having difficulty assimulating any answer except one that agrees totally with you. How can you express your original point better? Could you tell us how you feel without quoting other stuff for me?

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I feel we all come here needing support, understanding & acceptance and not that of condemnation, judgment or wrong assumptions.... for as it says: WE WILL PROBABLY BE WRONG 90% of the TIME!

Food for Thought...
Is the 10% worth the wound and hurt a wrong assumption might create within another?

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I just read some nifty stats about how depressed people are OFTEN correct in their assessments of what is going on and what others are meaning. Where does that 90% wrong come in to play with that? I don't see that it does, in fact, if I may suggest without offending, that the 90% statement is quite pessimistic, for most ppl cannot be wrong most of the time, as that implies, imo.

If you could open up and tell us why you feel you are being misjudged, or even judged at all, rather than expressing such distaste over some "assumptions" that may have been off the mark, I think we could all work from there and offer you more poignant support. In addition, if you could identify the emotions that are being experienced over this, such as rage, frustration, defensiveness, that would help too, imo.
What do you think?