Hi,
I think it could be LITTLE growli,rebelling!
"You won't tell ME what to do,I'll do as I damn
well please!" In which case, you will have to
start talking to her (this is solid advice though
you may think it silly), make a relationship with
her,and try to come to understanding with her.
("you do this,and I'll do that kind of thing").
Even if this was not going on, considering what
you have been through,it would STILL be a
necessary and good for you,action to carry out.
If you need more info message me.
Deepest Respect,
BLUEDOVE.