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Originally Posted by murray
Meeting with another T was exactly what I was going to suggest. Perhaps even a session with your T and consult T, although I doubt your T would really want to be involved with that. I know that it is none of my business and not my place, but it seems that your T has a very hard time owning up to his own issues and mistakes. Even if he doesn't agree with you, he should be able to hear your view on things.
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I agree that my T seems to have a hard time owning up to his own issues. When we were trying to repair this latest rupture, he did admit that maybe he was pressuring me - but in no way took ownership for how out of control he seemed to be...and at the end of the session, he said that he has just as many faults as the next guy, but a lack of caring and wanting what's in my best interest isn't one of them.
As much as I understand it, I hate the idea of "but I care and want what's in your best interest" is a blanket excuse for poor behavior.