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Old Jun 03, 2013, 04:53 PM
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Originally Posted by Perna View Post
Just one tiny question, hankster..
Okay, I have that out of my system But that's a good idea, if you can get something simple from your T (or give him something of yours to take with him) that provides a nice link? Ask him to recommend or give you a book/movie or something he liked he's done/seen and do/see that while he's away. My T idly commented on seeing "Cider House Rules" and enjoyed and I made my husband take me to it (I'm not a big movie person) and he hated it and it was psychologically very difficult for me :-) but now I think about T every time it's on TV or something.
Cute pics, thanks perna!!

But looking at the progress, the difference, in how I've handled these gift opportunities is really the point for me. The first time t gave me something - a coffee mug - I assumed it was temporary and that he would want it back. It's like, what was wrong with me that I would think that?? But really - who cares - that person is gone now. I like seeing that change. It's so hard to see our own change.