It sounds like crap to me but thanks for your support. Maybe its because I am having a hard time in my own head at the mo and at the limit of crap I can take and maybe Im sick of my job too. I dont know how Im coping, I keep getting up and truckin on...anyway I the landlord came round today and he cleaned the floor , instead of her .. Im doubting my ability to see things clearly and he cleans up after Miss Thang. What is going on here?

Ive decided that I will move when I find another decent place, the landlord inability to handle her is not admirable. He told me she is leaving in Sept if not sooner. I cant chance him being as apathetic again and hes hurt me and caused unnecessary stress by his uselessness. He said `shes not my child I cant tell her what to do' I said `no shes your tenant and you sit her down and tell her you want her to contribute in keeping your dwelling clean' what sort of a stuuupid thing to say is that? Ideally Id like perhaps a tiny studio/annexe, it will be a bit more but like pfrog says you cant put a price on it. Im a very tidy person so it makes sense. Im not uncomfortably neat and scared of clutter. I have to watch myself coz u cant have enough pretty shiny things!(and cushions!) but I like cleanliness and tidiness especially in the bathroom and kitchen.No matter what is going on out there my living space is my sanctuary and keeping it clean and beautiful makes my head feel better.

Im stunned at her generation, mid 20's, how many were married with children and keeping house then? She needs to get herself sorted. Acting like a silly little girl. Time to grow up! Interestingly her folks drive 600m round trip per wk to pick her up for a few days and bring her back...they dont wont princess to travel on public transport... this is not my sort of person.