((allimsaying))))))))))))))))))))))))))) )))))))) I know you are the one who sat with your mom. You are the one who stayed till the end.
To ask about your moms funeral , even sternly after they didn't answer you is not a bad thing.
tempers fly due to stress of death.
Maybe they feel bad they weren't there at the end. I hate to say it. But they should have been.
You are a good person. Know that. Your mom loved you.