As usual i obviously have no advice, i just want to let you know you're not the only one in this. I have a couple of friends that depend heavily on me, everything is about my opinion, my advice. They have no idea how triggering they are, they have no idea what I'm going through, what i am. They just believe that for some reason, i understand them. I've had instances where i was barely holding my own, and they my friend needed me desperately. I told her specific times she can reach me and if she feels it's an emergency, i have a set ringer for that. Otherwise i wouldn't survive the stress of it. I learnt with difficulty that i can't let her problems kill me. We can only do so much, the rest is up to them. sometimes i still don't. Hope you can handle it, and come to set boundaries. Your well being is important. It's your friends ultimate choice, not yours. ((((hugs))))