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I'm working very hard on this thread, Rhapsody, to try and find your truth here... but I have to agree with Septembermorn, as I read your responses, that you appear to be having difficulty assimulating any answer except one that agrees totally with you.

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I really do not understand where this comment is coming from.... for I was the one that started this THREAD on how I felt on wrong assumptions, therefore, I should be able to see MY ANSWER as the one for ME... and not for someone else (every one is in titled to their own answer / truth - separate from mine and mine separate from theirs).

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I feel we all come here needing support, understanding & acceptance and not that of condemnation, judgment or wrong assumptions.... for as it says: WE WILL PROBABLY BE WRONG 90% of the TIME!

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I just read some nifty stats about how depressed people are OFTEN correct in their assessments of what is going on and what others are meaning. Where does that 90% wrong come in to play with that? I don't see that it does, in fact, if I may suggest without offending, that the 90% statement is quite pessimistic, for most ppl cannot be wrong most of the time, as that implies, imo.

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I do not believe that I ever said that 90% of all people were wrong - but rather what I said was that "we should not assume any thing about another" for: 90% of all ASSUMPTIONS are wrong.... there is a big difference in the two.

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If you could open up and tell us why you feel you are being misjudged, or even judged at all, rather than expressing such distaste over some "assumptions" that may have been off the mark, I think we could all work from there and offer you more poignant support.

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If I could have opened up in forums in the first place I would have.... but as it has been stated before - We Cannot Bring PM's / Problems with another Member(s) into the Forums, hence why my hands were tied when I felt an old issue coming back to life (and) hence why I had to beat around the bush a little in witting this thread.

BUT - I will say that I started feeling judge and wrongly interpreted again after posting my thread in the Spiritual Section.... I felt as though a few people started to assume things about me and my faith that was not true - and all because I asked for advice in helping a good friend of mine that has been doubting Gods existence, not me doubting but them.... and I was in no way trying to debate Gods existence, I was merely asking for help in explaining Gods existence to my friend, and some took it the wrong way (they let me know in PM).

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... For once I would just like to create a post without any one taking things away from its original perspective, hence wrecking havoc upon the full thread - then it gets locked or deleted (gone forever) and the poster of the thread still has no answer or advice from those that cared enough to help.

... I would like to let the THREAD stand as it was meant to be / by the poster.