I finally had the big "D" talk with my husband of 30 years because I feel that we no longer work together, have become two very different people, have grown apart, fight to much, and just clearly do not like each other as we need to even though we care for one another......... NOW WHAT?

Do I stay and see what happens?
Do I move into the guest room for a while?
Do I pack my bags and leave for a friends house?
Do I file for a legal separation for the time being to keep insurance?

..... I am numb and lost.