I get off work around 10:30 at night and when I got home he wasn't here. I didn't try to text him till close to 12. He flips out that I texted him one time and he cussed me out and said I needed to chill my *** out. I only sent one text asking where he was at. I feel like he shouldn't have yelled at me for that. He comes home now long after talking to me with his friend and they are sitting in the room playing computer games now. When he walked in the door he said "here I am! Happy now! Can you see me?!" I told him it didn't matter to me if he was home now I just wanted to know where he was and he told me I needed to leave him alone. I only sent one text! This feels so suspicious to me. Why does he get so upset if I text or call him while I'm home and he is out? When I get off work he expects me to be home and times that I don't come home immediately I have to make sure he knows well in advance before I'm allowed to do anything. He doesn't even let me go to work more than an hour early without being suspicious of me but he can go where ever he wants without having to tell me anything? Is it me or is this unfair?