Thanks for the reply...... separation for me would prob be the best thing atm as I do not work and have not worked for the last ten years --my husband has been the main financial provider for the marriage and our family over the last thirty years. We are both good people - he is not all that bad with other people, we just dont work together any more with each other, therefore, I feel its best we go our separate ways so we can still co-exist for our two adult kids and grand-kids.

I am presently talking to friends and family members online about a place to stay.