Well, from reading your Who Else has given up on relationships, I couldn't agree more! I am a married man, 55 years old, two big cats, a little dog, and I really want some new animal, I had a bunny, who was my fat cat's best friend, however he died and I really believe a part of the cat died with him. The poor thing goes to the garage door each morning (where Karl) the rabbit lived and looks for him, it brings tears to my eyes sometimes. However, I have gotten off the subject, I divorced my wife of 29 years to remarry a sweetheart of 20 years ago, not only was it a mistake, but I tell you, if something does't give soon, I am taking my gang of animals and heading for the hills, so I guess what I am trying to say is you really don't need someone on two feet who directs your life, etc., and as far as sex goes, I realized, actually just a few months ago (Jan 30 to be exact Who needs it? So I am becoming a old man who is finally at peace with life. Hang in there!!