Thanks for sharing that. I think you hit on one important thing (well many but one that jumps out to me)
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I realize now that I was basing that on the fantasy-like memories I had of our relationship
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... I did that so much in the relationships that were most unhealthy. In fact I would also fantasize how they could be, but not in the normal daydreaming sort of way I don't think. When things would end I would be losing not who that person actually was but who I had made them out to be.
Anyhow, congrats on leveling up. And thanks for sharing that --- it gives lots of hope to others.